Lets Talk Gosselin

Okay everyone...WHAT IS GOING ON WITH THOSE TWO??? I just don't understand. They really need to just take a step back and realize that money and fame isn't everything. One day I truly feel that they are going to look back on this and see that they have made some really bad choices and there is no way to go back and change it. I don't think I will continue to support the show just because it truly bothers me that Kate is loving her celeb status, no matter the cost, and Jon is having a mid life crisis. It is truly, truly sad to me!!! TRULY I tell you!! So what were your thoughts after the season premier last night??? Oh and by the way, my hard drive crashed and we are moving so if it takes me a while to respond...that would be why. Im logging onto to any random laptop I find lying around...HA HA!!

Let's Talk Gosselin

OH MY STARS!! What is going on with these two??? Do we have good intuition or what ladies??? For months we have been seeing something strange about our once favorite show on television. Now, I am just disgusted and feel that I have been betrayed by Kate!! I don't know why I feel that way, I don't even know her, but in my mind we were BFF's and she has let a little bit of fame and a lot of money tear her family apart and completely change her. Isn't it insane how satan can just come in through the smallest crack and cause total havoc in your life???

I think that this is a lesson for all Christians to be on guard against him. He is out there and he is just waiting for us to feel like we are "good enough" that we "have it all together" and that we can do it all "ourselves." Kate is a perfect example of what can happen to us when we take the focus off of God and put it on ourselves for just a little while.

I would love to see these two get it together and put their family back together, but lots of damage has been done and lets of accusations have been made. From Jon cheating to Kate cheating to their marriage and the show being a complete sham for a long time...its all heartbreaking to me!!

So tell me how you feel....lets talk Gosselin!!

Summer Survival...Its almost here ya know!!

The school year wind down is in full swing...I always say that May is the craziest month of the year. I find it very difficult to plan for summer when I am in "just get to the last day of school mode." With so much going on (end of the year parties, teacher appreciation, graduations, and it always seems that someone decides to get married right smack in the middle of all of it...this year it was my brother-in-law...so throw me as a bridesmaid, my husband the best man, and both girls as flower girls in the mix) it seems almost impossible to see the light at the end of the tunnel.

But year after year I learn if I don't start planning now, we all end up sleeping the days away and getting NOTHING accomplished. I always have such big plans for the summer months, and because they go by so quickly, it seems almost unfair to let one single day go by wasted. Because I love being home with my kids so much, I bought the book The Family Manager's Guide to Summer Survival by Kathy Peel.

This book is loaded with activities and ideas to keep your summer running smoothly and I highly reccommend it!! Here are just a few ways I have found to keep myself sane in the summer:

• Develop "Summer Rules" and "Summer Schedule" right off the bat. I have found that without those two things happening on day 1, it will be June 30th and I will still be nagging the kids about EVERYTHING. I made up the saying a few summers ago, "All our work must be done before we have any fun!!" and it has really stuck in our family.
• Rewards only come when they are earned. This is huge. My mom used to always say, "Being off of school is the fun of summer vacation." In my family that was true. We never went a single place, no vacation...nothing. In my own family now, I would like to keep that true to some extent. I don't know why I begin to feel so guilty over not "doing" something with them every second of their summer vacation. While summer is a special time, we certainly don't have to be at the movies, the zoo, and the water park every minute of it. I have started to plan an outing one or two days per week. We may get together with friends, have a little day out of some sort, go to the library, or just whatever, but by being out of the house every day, I have found that summer slips by us and we have nothing to show for it. That brings me to my next HUGE "Hello" moment...
• Don't let the guilt of having to do something with our kids ruin our summer and break the bank. There are so many fun things to do at home for FREE!! I have so many friends who get Season Passes to everything our town has to offer and by the middle of June, their kids are begging to not have to go to the water park another day. THAT IS NOT FUN and it is certainly not cheap. We will plan one trip to the water park, maybe a couple to the zoo, and pick a few of the summer movies that we really love to go see. Other than that, our summer will be very inexpensive and very low key.
• ENJOY THE TIME WITH YOUR KIDS. Have picnics in the backyard, go bike riding, break out the water hose, go to the park, make crafts, do puzzles, paint, play dough, there are so many things to do around the house that the school year makes so difficult to find time for.

So, with all that said, I am certainly no MOM Expert. I am just sharing what I have stubbornly learned over the last few summers and think I am so much better for. This week I will spend my time looking at my calendar and trying to strategically plan some fun outings for us as a family. I will also be doing lots of printing from the internet (school work for the coming year) to help my kids remember all that they have learned. And last but not least, I will be putting together a list of books that I want my kids to read before summer is over, so that I will have it together for our library outings...LOVE THE LIBRARY IN THE SUMMER!!

All of this will go in my binder that I keep everything in and I will be ready for summer. Check out Kathy Peel's book if you can, lots of great ideas in it.

I would LOVE to hear what yall have planned for your summer vacation. Please comment and share with us all of your good ideas and lets plan a great summer together!!